CAN I WALK WITH YOU?

I woke up this morning you were the first thing on my mind
I don't know where it came from all I know is I need you in my life
You make me feel like I can be a better woman
If you just say you wanna take this friendship to another place
Can I walk with you through your life
Can I lay with you as your wife
Can I be your friend till the end
Can I walk with you through your life
You've got me wondering if you know that I am wondering about you
The feeling is so strong that I can't imagine you're not feeling it too
You've known me long enough to trust that I want what's best for you
If you wanna be happy then I am the one that you should give your heart to
Now everyday ain't gonna be, like the summer's day
Being in love for real it ain't like a movie screen
But I can tell you all the drama aside you and I can find what the worlds been 
looking for forever friendship and love together
Can I walk with you through your life till the day that the world stops turning
Can I walk with you till the day that my heart stops beating
Can I walk with you through your life
Can I walk with you till the end that the birds no longer take flight till the 
moon is underwater
Can I walk with you
Can I walk with you
This is the moment I've been waiting for
Can I walk with you
Can I walk with you
Can I walk with you
You are everything I've been looking for 
Can I walk with you
Creative intellectual
Can I walk with you 
Can I walk with you as your wife

Don't Gripping your Felicities, Don't Kick your Sorrow

Planning and memories are two differnet files in our life that can make us worried about later and sick or happy about  the past, for the things that rolled by. Now-Here is what really happen to us, the way to see it, called Vipassana. Everyone need to be happy, no matter what happen, can we? As a human, we need to learn about life, learn by ourself, the deepest self. there's some ways i wanna share:

The ways to get vipassana:

1. Learning
Learning about everything happen to our body, our mind, and also our soul. Yes, there're differences about mind and soul. Learning that everythings happen is just happen, they drawing to an end. Without care it make us in pain or in laugh. just learning, yes, its happen, i can through this and i can pass it.

2. Contemplating (merenung)
Without contemplating we know that should not be any get between the teaching and your mind. Why? because we failed to see the ultimate reality (positif digenggam, negatif ditendang).  It proceed from such :
- ignorance
- carmic formation
- kesadaran dualistic
- name and face
- six hole
- contact
- feeling
- menggenggam
- craving
- dead

so, let us be happy in every step we take. if you are not, you should stop the dukka:
The characteristic of people that can stop the dukka:
1. open up your mind
-tidak mudah menghakimi orang,
-tidak mudah menyalahkan orang
-tidak tertarik menjelek2kan orang
manusia menderita karena dikerangkeng oleh pikirannya yang picik.

2. widen your heart
-the ultimate peace, the enlightment, hening
-memiliki hati yang luas
-memiliki pikiran yang luas

3. belas kasih

WHAT IS MARRIAGE?

Menikah bagi sebagian perempuan adalah sebuah keputusan yang besar, sebagian beranggapan adalah keputusan normal, dan sebagian lagi melihat sebagai keputusan yang salah. 

SETTLE DOWN- KIMBRA

I wanna settle down
I wanna settle down
Won't you settle down with me?
Settle down

We can settle at a table
A table for two
Won't you wine and dine with me?
Settle down

I wanna raise a child
I wanna raise a child
Won't you raise a child with me?
Raise a child

We'll call her Nebraska
Nebraska Jones
She'll have your nose
Just so you know

I wanna settle down
I wanna settle down
Won't you settle down with me?
Settle down

Run from Angela Vickers
I saw her with you
Monday morning small talking on the avenue
She's got a fancy car
She wants to take you far
From the city lights and sounds deep into the dark

Star so light and star so bright
First star I see tonight!
Star so light and star so bright
Keep him by my side!

I wanna settle down
I wanna settle down
Baby there's no need to run
I'll love you well
I wanna settle down
It's time to bring you down
On just one knee for now
Let's make our vows

Star so light and star so bright
First star I see tonight!
Star so light and star so bright
Keep him by my side!